Getting in the mood doesn’t always need a big setup.
Sometimes, all it takes is the right question whispered in her ear or sent across a simple text to spark something electric between you.
When the conversation turns playful, teasing, and just a little bold, it can turn a regular night into something unforgettable.
If you’re looking for dirty questions that actually sound natural and bring real heat, you’re in the right place.
These flirty and spicy prompts are made to get her heart racing, her mind wandering, and her body wanting a lot more of you.
Flirty Dirty Questions to Tease Your Girlfriend
1. What’s one thing you wish I’d do to you right now if no one was around?
2. If I kissed your neck slowly, how long do you think you could keep a straight face?
3. Are you wearing anything right now that you want me to slowly take off later?
4. What’s the naughtiest thought you’ve had about me today?
5. If I blindfolded you, would you trust me to have my way with you?
6. What’s your favorite spot for me to kiss that isn’t your lips?
7. If I whispered in your ear right now, would you get goosebumps?
8. How long would you let me tease you before begging me to stop?
9. What’s one thing you’d love me to do if we had the whole night to ourselves?
10. Do you ever imagine me touching you when we’re apart?
11. If I slowly slid my hands under your shirt right now, what would you do?
12. Would you rather I kiss you softly everywhere or pin you down and kiss you hard?
13. If you could pick one thing for me to do to you tonight, what would it be?
14. What’s something you secretly hope I’ll try with you sometime soon?
15. If I leaned in and whispered all the dirty things I want to do to you, would you listen or interrupt me?
16. What’s your favorite memory of us getting a little too carried away?
17. Where would you most love to feel my hands right now?
18. Would you want me to be slow and gentle tonight—or rough and needy?
19. If I kissed you right now, where would you want it to lead?
20. What’s one word you could whisper that would drive me crazy instantly?
21. When was the last time you had a naughty thought about me?
22. If I told you to close your eyes and trust me, would you do it without asking questions?
23. What’s your favorite thing I do when things get heated between us?
24. What’s one piece of clothing you’d love for me to pull off you first?
25. If I kissed your bare shoulder right now, would you shiver a little?
26. Are you thinking about what it would feel like if I pinned your hands above your head?
27. Would you want me to be in total control tonight—or would you take charge?
28. What’s something you want me to whisper in your ear the next time we’re alone?
29. If you had me all to yourself tonight, what’s the very first thing you’d do to me?
30. How do you feel knowing I’m thinking about kissing every inch of you right now?
Dirty Questions to Turn Up the Heat
31. What’s the one thing you’ve always wanted to try with me but haven’t asked for yet?
32. If I started kissing down your stomach, would you stop me or pull me closer?
33. Are you thinking about how good it would feel if I wrapped my arms around you right now?
34. Would you let me undress you slowly or would you get too impatient?
35. What’s something dirty you wish I’d whisper when we’re cuddled up together?
36. If you could design our perfect night together, how naughty would it get?
37. Do you like it better when I take my time or when I don’t give you a second to breathe?
38. If I slid my fingers under your clothes right now, would you stop me?
39. What’s one thing I could do that would leave you completely breathless?
40. What’s more exciting to you: a long, teasing make-out session or being kissed hard against a wall?
41. If I pulled you into my lap right now, what would you want to happen next?
42. How bad would you want me if I started kissing your neck right here, right now?
43. Would you rather feel my lips exploring your skin or my hands?
44. What’s the most turned-on you’ve ever felt with me?
45. Would you like it if I whispered exactly what I’m imagining doing to you tonight?
46. If I gave you a massage right now, do you think it would stay innocent for long?
47. Are you more into slow teasing kisses or kisses that leave you breathless?
48. Would you let me tease you just enough to make you beg for more?
49. If I told you I’m imagining you right now, would you guess what part of you I’m thinking about first?
50. Do you ever imagine sneaking away with me when we’re out in public?
51. What’s something you want me to say to you the moment I pull you close?
52. How would you react if I pinned you up against the wall and kissed you senseless?
53. If I started running my hands slowly up your thighs, how long could you pretend to stay calm?
54. What’s your favorite thing about the way I touch you?
55. Do you like it when I take my time kissing every inch of you, or when I can’t wait another second?
56. How would you feel if I showed up right now and kissed you like I’ve missed you for a year?
57. Would you let me be a little rough with you if you knew how badly I wanted you?
58. If I started whispering dirty little things in your ear, would you blush or pull me closer?
59. What’s the one place you wish I’d kiss you right now?
60. How hard would it be for you to stay quiet if I started teasing you exactly how you like it?
Naughty “Would You Rather” Questions for Your Girlfriend
61. Would you rather have a night of slow, teasing kisses or one wild, can’t-keep-our-hands-off-each-other session?
62. Would you rather be blindfolded or handcuffed if I promised you an unforgettable night?
63. Would you rather hear everything I’m thinking about doing to you—or have me show you without saying a word?
64. Would you rather sneak away somewhere risky or stay in bed all day, completely undisturbed?
65. Would you rather have me kiss every inch of you first or whisper everything I want to do to you first?
66. Would you rather wake up to kisses or fall asleep tangled up with me after a long night?
67. Would you rather have a slow, teasing morning with me—or a spontaneous midnight adventure?
68. Would you rather I kiss your neck for five minutes or your inner thighs for five minutes?
69. Would you rather get lost in a make-out session that never ends or jump right into the action?
70. Would you rather have me kiss you senseless against a wall or push you down onto the bed?
71. Would you rather me whisper sweet nothings or whisper all the dirty things I want to do to you?
72. Would you rather have a romantic night of candlelight and soft kisses or a wild night where we can’t get enough of each other?
73. Would you rather hear me moan your name or make you moan mine first?
74. Would you rather be teased with feather-light touches or deep, slow kisses?
75. Would you rather sneak in a quick, heated moment somewhere risky or savor every second in private?
76. Would you rather feel my fingertips tracing your skin or my mouth exploring it?
77. Would you rather get caught stealing a kiss or caught in the middle of something much naughtier?
78. Would you rather have my hands in your hair or on your hips while I’m kissing you?
79. Would you rather let me take control or have you completely call the shots tonight?
80. Would you rather I kiss you goodnight in the sweetest way—or in a way that makes you crave more?
81. Would you rather be kissed so slowly it drives you crazy or so passionately it leaves you breathless?
82. Would you rather be whispered to in public or kissed somewhere hidden where no one else can see?
83. Would you rather have soft kisses that linger forever or hard kisses that leave you breathless in seconds?
84. Would you rather feel my hands slowly undo your clothes—or me pull you closer and leave them in a rush?
85. Would you rather fall asleep wrapped around me—or wake up to me already kissing you awake?
86. Would you rather hear how badly I want you—or feel it without a single word spoken?
87. Would you rather kiss me first—or have me surprise you with a kiss so good you lose track of time?
88. Would you rather let me pin you down—or have me let you take total control?
89. Would you rather spend an hour just kissing—or spend an hour just teasing?
90. Would you rather have slow, soft kisses on your neck—or quick, hungry ones that make you shiver?
Sexy Dirty Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend Over Text
91. If I were there right now, where’s the first place you’d want my hands to go?
92. Are you wearing something that would drive me crazy if I saw you right now?
93. What’s one thing you wish I was whispering in your ear instead of texting you?
94. How bad would you want me if I showed up at your door and pushed you up against the wall?
95. If I slid my hand slowly up your thigh right now, would you stop me—or dare me to go further?
96. What’s the naughtiest dream you’ve had about me lately?
97. If you had me completely to yourself tonight, would you want it slow and teasing or fast and filthy?
98. Where on your body would you want my lips right now, if you could choose?
99. If I dared you to send me a voice note telling me what you want me to do to you, would you?
100. Are you wet just thinking about what we could be doing if I was with you right now?
101. If I kissed your neck and whispered everything I’m imagining right now, would you melt or beg for more?
102. What would you do if I slowly started pulling your clothes off, piece by piece, with no rush at all?
103. If you had five minutes alone with me right now, what’s the first dirty thing you’d do?
104. Would you rather feel my lips teasing you everywhere or my hands holding you tight against me?
105. Tell me exactly how you’d want me to take my time with you if we had all night.
106. What’s one filthy thing you’ve never told me you want to try but secretly crave?
107. If I had you pinned under me right now, what’s the first thing you’d beg for?
108. How many kisses would it take to make you completely lose control tonight?
109. Would you be able to stay quiet if I started teasing you until you couldn’t take it anymore?
110. What would you say if I told you I’m already hard just thinking about you?
111. If I traced your body with just my mouth, where would you want me to spend extra time?
112. Would you let me hear the sounds you make when I touch you exactly the way you love?
113. If I told you to close your eyes and just feel, how long before you begged for more?
114. Picture me between your legs right now—what would you want me to do first?
115. What’s one dirty secret you’ve never told anyone before?
116. If I slowly slid my fingers inside you while looking you in the eyes, would you be able to handle it?
117. Would you want me to tease you with just the tip of my tongue until you couldn’t take it anymore?
118. If I kissed every inch of your body without rushing, how long could you stay still?
119. Tell me what you’d do if I pinned your wrists above your head and kissed my way down your body.
120. Are you craving my hands on your skin right now as much as I’m craving yours?
