To Every Girl Who Thinks She Is Hard To Love

You might have heard this often: you are hard to love. Maybe people have told you that you’re challenging to handle, or that you expect too much from others. 

Perhaps they’ve even called you a perfectionist. Over time, hearing this repeatedly might have made you believe that there’s something wrong with you—that perhaps you are indeed hard to love.

This thought might have grown on you, leading you to see it as a flaw, something that makes people walk away. 

You might have started thinking this characteristic is why your relationships don’t last, and you may even have started blaming yourself for all the hardships you’ve faced.

But here’s something important I want you to know: it’s time to stop feeling this way. You are not hard to love. 

In fact, you are a strong, independent woman with her own opinions and attitudes. You stand up for what you believe is right and fight for yourself.

You rely only on yourself and don’t just trust anyone who comes into your life. You don’t let others define who you are, nor do you change your essence just to be liked or to fit into societal standards.

Your strong intuition and respect for yourself mean that you don’t tolerate dishonesty or disrespect because it offends your intelligence. 

You demand that those in your life treat you with the respect and appreciation you deserve, never letting anyone take you for granted.

However, these qualities don’t make you hard to love. Instead, they may intimidate immature men who feel insecure around you. 

They see your strength and fear they cannot control you, which might threaten their ego. So, they might try to make you feel guilty, claiming you are difficult to handle.

What they fail to see is the loving heart you possess. Your strength is not a barrier but a boon, something that could support them through life’s challenges. 

Your fighting spirit means you would do everything to preserve a relationship, staying loyal and supportive.

You would never disrespect someone who respects you. You would believe in your partner even when others might not, and you would love them unconditionally, ready to make sacrifices for their well-being if they prove themselves worthy of your love.

So please, stop blaming yourself and thinking you are hard to love. You’re not. 

You’re just hard to love for those who don’t deserve you or aren’t ready to handle a woman of your caliber.

You don’t expect too much—you simply give a lot and expect to be treated with the same kindness and effort. You understand that a relationship should be a mutual endeavor, not a one-sided effort.

You are right to not prioritize people who treat you as an option, and that is exactly how you should continue to conduct yourself.

It may be hard to believe now, but trust me, there will come a day when someone will see your true worth. 

This person will understand and appreciate all your qualities and will strive to make you lower your guard.

This man will cherish you deeply, loving you for exactly who you are—including your imperfections. He will love you in the way you deserve to be loved.

Most importantly, he will help you combat your insecurities and show you all the reasons you are indeed very lovable. With his love, he will teach you to love yourself again.

When this person enters your life, you will never again doubt your worth or think that you are hard to love. 

This relationship will be a testament to the fact that the right person will see and cherish your true self, and with him, you will flourish in love and life.