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We’ve all felt that little twinge of envy when someone has something we desire. 

But people often don’t like admitting when they’re jealous because it might make them seem insecure or petty. So, they hide it. 

However, just because they’re hiding it doesn’t mean it’s not there. And sometimes, it’s important to recognize these hidden feelings to address any potential issues in a relationship, be it a romantic one, a friendship, or even a professional relationship.

That said, we’ll be discussing the signs you’ll likely see when a girl is jealous (and likes you), but at the same time trying to hide her jealousy. 

1. Discomfort When You Talk to Other Women

A telltale sign of hidden jealousy is when a woman shows clear discomfort when you talk to other women. She might not openly express her feelings, but her reactions can give her away.

For instance, you might notice a change in her demeanor during these interactions, becoming quieter, visibly upset, or distracted. 

Even if she doesn’t voice her discomfort, her behavior might shift noticeably, revealing her feelings.

Additionally, after the interaction, she might act differently. She might be short with you, or bring up the conversation or the woman you were talking to in a negative light. 

This is a subtle way of expressing her displeasure without directly addressing her feelings of jealousy.

[Read: Why Women Play Hard to Get When They Are Attracted to You]

2. Frequently Comparing Herself to Others

Signs she's jealous but hiding it

A woman who is jealous but hiding it might not openly admit that she is comparing herself with other women you spend time with. 

She might bring up the topic indirectly, perhaps by asking questions about the other person, or making self-deprecating comments. 

This is a sign that she’s worried about her own standing in your eyes compared to others.

Remember, comparison can be a natural response to perceived threats. If she feels like she’s in competition for your attention or affection, these comparisons might come to the fore. 

Her hidden jealousy could be fueling this need to measure up, even if she’s not consciously aware of it.

[Related: 12 Signs He is Jealous of Other Guys]

3. Passive-Aggressive Behavior

Passive-aggression is a way we express negative feelings without having to confront them directly. 

For instance, she might make a snide remark about a woman you’ve been spending time with, or show indifference when you share something positive about her. 

The key is in the subtlety; it might take a while to realize that her remarks have a tinge of resentment or jealousy.

Furthermore, passive-aggressive behavior can also manifest as a sudden change in her demeanor. If she becomes distant, dismissive, or unusually quiet, especially when you mention a certain person, it might be a sign of hidden jealousy.

4. Exaggerated Praise

jealous girl

On the opposite end of the spectrum, a woman might try to mask her jealousy through exaggerated praise. 

This might seem counterintuitive, as jealousy often comes with a sense of resentment or competition. But it’s a subtle way of hiding her true feelings.

She might compliment the person she’s jealous of excessively, or even overly praise your relationship with that person. 

The idea is to create a façade of admiration and goodwill, covering up the feelings of jealousy lurking beneath. It’s her way of managing these emotions without having to confront them openly.

This is particularly true if you notice a shift in her usual behavior. If she’s typically more reserved with compliments, and suddenly starts lavishing praise in certain situations or towards a specific person.

[Read: 7 Signs Someone Is Jealous Of You]

5. Change in Body Language

Non-verbal cues can often be more telling than words, especially when someone is trying to hide their feelings.

For instance, she might tense up, cross her arms, or avoid eye contact when the person she’s jealous of is brought up in conversation. 

Or, she might show signs of discomfort like fidgeting, looking away, or quick changes in her facial expressions. These signs can be subtle and quick, but they often betray underlying emotions.

Whenever the person that triggers her jealousy is around, her body language will likely change. She might become more closed off, or conversely, overcompensate by being overly friendly or enthusiastic. 

Both can be ways to mask her true feelings and keep the jealousy under wraps.

6. Sudden Unavailability

If a woman becomes suddenly unavailable or aloof when you’re spending time with others, this could be a sign of hidden jealousy. Why?

The sudden unavailability is often a reaction to the feeling of being left out or overlooked. It can be her way of coping with jealousy by distancing herself from you.

Moreover, if she’s normally responsive and available, and this change happens when you’re with certain individuals, this could be a strong indicator of hidden jealousy. 

It’s like an indirect way of saying, “If you’re spending time with them, I’ll be elsewhere.”

However, everyone has their busy periods and moments when they can’t be as responsive. 

The key is to look for patterns and changes in behavior that tie back to your interactions with a specific person/people.

[Also read: 50 Status to Make Your Ex Jealous]

7. Overcompensating in Her Interactions

Signs she likes you but is hiding it

For instance, if you’ve been spending a lot of time with someone else, she might start planning more activities with you. Or, if you’ve been praising someone else’s attributes, she might start emphasizing or mimicking those same qualities.

Overcompensation is often a response to feelings of insecurity brought on by jealousy. 

The idea is to reaffirm her connection with you, and in some way, compete with the person she perceives as a threat.

8. Attempts to Make You Jealous

Sometimes, a woman who is jealous might try to hide her feelings by attempting to make you feel jealous. It’s a form of projection, where she transfers her feelings onto you. 

She might talk about other men, spend more time with them, or make a point of praising them in your presence. 

This strategy serves a dual purpose. On one hand, it distracts from her own feelings of jealousy, and on the other, it might make you feel the same way she does.

If you show signs of jealousy, it can validate her feelings and potentially bring the underlying issue to light.

9. Overanalyzing Your Interactions with Other Women

For instance, she might pick on seemingly minor details, like a casual touch or a shared laugh with another girl and blow them out of proportion. 

She might not outright say she’s jealous, but her over-analysis betrays her true feelings.

However, keep in mind that people analyze situations for various reasons. It becomes a sign of hidden jealousy when it is consistent, focused on specific individuals, and a departure from her normal behavior. 

If she’s spending a lot of time dissecting your interactions with others, especially women, she might be concealing feelings of jealousy.


What Makes a Woman Feel Jealous?

Jealousy is a universal emotion and isn’t limited to any gender. But when it comes to what specifically might make a woman feel jealous, several factors come into play. 

These include feelings of insecurity or inadequacy, fear of losing someone’s attention or affection, or perceived competition. In essence, a woman might feel jealous when she sees a potential threat to a relationship or status she values. 

This could be a romantic relationship, a close friendship, or even a professional relationship.

Moreover, societal and cultural factors also play a role. Media portrayal of ‘ideal’ women, societal expectations, and peer pressure can lead to feelings of inadequacy or competition, triggering jealousy. 

Each person’s individual personality and life experiences also shape how they perceive and react to potential threats, leading to varying degrees and expressions of jealousy.

[Related: 5 Signs She’s Interested, But Playing Hard to Get]

How Do You Know if a Girl is Secretly Jealous?

Detecting hidden jealousy can be tricky as it often involves reading between the lines. However, some signs could indicate a girl is secretly jealous. 

These include excessive interest in your schedule, frequent comparisons to others, passive-aggressive behavior, and sudden unavailability. 

Other signs could be a change in her body language, overcompensating in her interactions, discomfort when you talk to other women, attempts to make you jealous, and overanalyzing your interactions with others.

Why Would a Woman Hide Her Jealousy?

There are various reasons a woman might hide her feelings of jealousy. Firstly, jealousy is often seen as a negative emotion, associated with insecurity, possessiveness, and mistrust. 

Therefore, a woman might hide her jealousy to avoid appearing insecure or petty. She might also fear that expressing her jealousy could drive the person away, especially if she perceives them to be moving away from her already.

Another reason could be that she’s not entirely aware of her feelings, or she’s in denial. Acknowledging jealousy requires admitting to feelings of inadequacy or fear, which can be difficult. Therefore, she might choose to suppress or hide her feelings instead. 

[Read: How To Play A Girl Who Is Playing You]


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Destiny Femi

Destiny Femi is a dating coach whose work has helped transform the love lives of countless people. With a writing style that is both insightful and relatable, Destiny has amassed a following of hundreds of thousands of readers who turn to him for advice on everything from finding the perfect partner to maintaining a healthy relationship. Through his articles he has inspired people around the world to become more confident, authentic, and successful in their dating life.

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